Hindsight really is a beautiful thing. Last year I wish I had the power to travel into the future to talk to my future self.
My future self would have given great advice to my stressed out NQT self.
1. Don’t come into school at 7.15am every morning. What’s the point? The work will always get done regardless and it just isn’t healthy staying in your work environment for up to 11 hrs a day.
2. The children are the main thing. Not having perfectly neat lesson plans or organised files. Make sure the children are learning in fun, engaging lessons. So what you didn’t differentiate 5 different sets of resources? They children can talk about what they have learnt and enjoyed their learning.
3. Don’t be a walk over. You can say no. Make sure you stand up for yourself and people know that you are not a walk over.
4. Don’t worry about lesson observations- you only get one observation a year and your mentor does not want you to fail. Unless you are absolutely diabolical, your mentor will do everything to make sure you pass. The time, effort and paper work for a failing NQT is too much stress ;)
5. Be nice. Talk to everyone. Talk to the cleaner and talk to the deputies. Talk to that TA who moans all the time and wears funny clothes- she’s actually best friends with the deputy and is more influential than you think.
6. Don’t ever give your real negative opinion. Let other people bitch in the staff room, but don’t get involved in office politics. You’re still not a permanent member of staff and the ‘likeability factor’ goes a long way.
7. Be positive. No one wants to be around mood suckers. Start your day smiling; the children will pick up on it and be better behaved and people will want to be around you. Plus, it will make yourself feel better. All you need is one positive thought to set your day up the right way.
8. Socialise. Make sure you go to any pub trips after work, no matter how tired you are. Get your face out there. Teaching is a hell of a lot harder if you haven’t got people to talk to at work. Go to the staff room at lunch, even if it’s just for 15mins, have that time away from your classroom to refresh and have an adult conversation. You will get the best ideas and advice sat in the staff room.
9. Treat yourself with your first pay packet. You won’t be able to do it for a long time after that. The feeling of your first pay packet will be amazing after earning nothing while you studied.
10. Develop a great relationship with your TA. TAs are loyal to the death if they support you, they will defend you and give you the heads up on what not to do and who to talk to, who not to talk to etc. They are a wealth of knowledge and can make your job so much easier if you get on well with them.
and most importantly. It. Does. Get. Better. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Honestly, you won’t always feel this stressed. Don’t get me wrong, you’ll feel stressed, but not as stressed as you’re feeling now. It gets easier. You get quicker at lesson planning, you’re behaviour management will improve. You’ll even tell people that you like your job.
No, seriously, you will.